Hostesses, strippers, go-go dancers and coyote dancers are often very beautiful and enticing. But, as everybody who has lived in Asia for a longer period knows, if you want to date such a girl you’d better be prepared to spend a lot of cash. This is particularly true for the hottest coyote dancers and hostess girls. These women make a lot of money selling nothing but drinks, and have guys wooing them in great numbers.
It can be very difficult to get a normal relationship with such a girl, without becoming a customer.
But a friend of mine has dated many of these girls without paying huge sums, and without pop-star looks, so it is possible.
I asked him for advice, and here is my compilation
of 10 tips for dating these women:
1) Don’t become a customer: Many dancers and hostesses have a rule not to date (non-paying) customers. Once you pay for anything you end up in the customer group, and that’s much more valuable to her as a recurring income. Avoid this by always buying bottles of liquor, instead of drinks for her etc. Let her have from your bottle instead.
2) Go a the right time: At the beginning of the month or at the very end of the month, most girls in the entertainment business feel debts and bills pile up, that means they have to focus more on making money, than anything else. Stay away these days.
3) Don’t sit or stand at front row: Otherwise known as Perv Row. Most likely she has had bad experiences with guys from this row, don’t get bundled in with them.
4) Make friends with an insider: Preferably the manager or the DJ. A good way to go about this is to meet and discuss with the manager about a party. When the girls see you with the manager, they will assume you are more important than the average customer.
5) Lead the conversation: All of these girls have a routine that they use the first few minutes to get information about you and get you to buy drinks. Don’t allow them to steer the conversation, but take charge and introduce fascinating topics about you.
6) Go out alone or in small groups: It is easier for a girl to approach you if you sit by yourself or with a friend. Large groups can be intimidating.
7) Don’t talk about sexual topics, and don’t let her.
8 ) Don’t mention the current situation. Don’t talk about the club or her job. Instead work on conveying your personality and attracting her.
9) Be sure to let her know you can handle a girl like her. Many guys get way to jealous to be with dancers and strippers. Don’t act needy, and show her you understand her world.
10) Act like an insider. Like with 4 and 9. Act almost bored with the whole scene. You have seen it all and know the score.
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